Lately I've been having this undeniable itch for change. I feel like my life is finally stable but boring at the same time. I don't really have the burning desire to party like a Rockstar every weekend like I used to. I rather spend quality time with family and friends doing more low key things like, sushi and sake (Japanese booze). Whenever I get this feeling I know my spirit is restless and it's time for a change of scenery. Off to camping for me it is, as I'm planning away on important details like bikinis and floppy hats to wear by the lake. It dawned on me that I still had not found a cat sitter! Who was going to keep an eye on my babies while I'm gone? Naturally, the first person that pops into my head for this kind of responsibility is...you guessed it "smoking hot guy". I was a little hesitant to ask at first, after all it is a little presumptuous of me to think a person that works 50 to 60 hours a week has time to or even wants to feed my cats for 4 days. My instincts said otherwise so, I asked him anyway. Much to my surprise, (after he finished tracing the shape of my hips with his eyes quickly) he said yes and then added "I'll even feed them too". Woohooo!! He didn't think twice about his answer, I was stunned and excited at the same time.
I figured okay he will probably forget about his agreement during the week and bring it up again Friday when I give him the key to my place right? He is a guy after all, usually if you make plans with a guy, he will call you up on that day to figure out details. I was wrong, the first thing to come out of his mouth Monday is "So when am I going to get my key?" Rookie mistake, this guy was raised by his mother (God bless you "smoking hot guy's" mom wherever you may be) I forget, sometimes your son makes sense to the opposite sex! Well, being the "together" gal that I am, I don't have a copy of my keys. I have one set, the original set. So I tell "smoking hot guy" "You will get my keys on Friday when I'm done using them" and he says to me with a concerned look on his face, "You really should have an extra set of keys just in case, you never know" And I answered "Well I don't". Doesn't he know that getting my keys and my parking pass back from him is an excuse for us to spend some alone time together? I mean you can cut the sexual tension with a knife, when we are alone we can melt butter, possibly cream cheese even. So now, the imposing question is this... Do I give him a copy of my keys and he can give them back whenever or do I give him my original keys and tell it like it is when I pick them up? Will he finally make a move and ask me out on a real date? I DON'T KNOW! And why does he want my keys so quickly? First we go on a fake date and now he wants my keys? This non-relationship/friendship is moving too fast. Or is it reaching a whole new level?
If I give him a copy of my keys he can be my key keeper in case I ever lock myself out of my apartment. But, if I give him my original keys I have to pray he's not busy when I get back and we can really talk. What's a girl to do? Comments or suggestions please!
Wow sounds like a tough one. I think that making a copy of your keys takes time so if you don't have it then just give him your original ones. If he has the time or not to chat with you when you come back for your keys doesn't matter. If he really is interested, then he'll make the time.
ReplyDeleteWOW though one indeed... did not know all of this was happening lol.. I would say give him a copy of the keys. When you get back you will still need to get them back and there is that opportunity for you guys to talk/hang out, I mean afterall you don't want him holding on to them you never know he may loose them or something.
ReplyDeleteAlso, where are you going muchacha you havent told me!?? LOL
Well i already told you what i think lol but it is complicated...but making him think he has an original but actually has a copy is a good idea lol that means he has to come and let you in when we get back hehehe
ReplyDeleteI would give him key copies. What if he lost your originals?
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